Prostitution +Asian +culture +submissive

[Floor13]

I am very pro-prostitution.
I prefer the word 'escort' as that is what the women and guys I've paid prefer.

When it is their choice, I have zero issues. And I have no problem or guilt getting every penny's worth of enjoyment out of them. As long as there is consent.

I've spoken to women that thoroughly enjoy what they do. And others that just do it for the money as they have no other choice.

I don't really care if they have no choice. Soldiers die every day, they get wounded every day, often it was their only job they could find, and they are being sent to
some other country to fight for politicians and weapon manufacturers.



If the women are being forced into it, it really turns my stomach, obviously.


However!!! (I'll get to the point eventually)
Edukator recently posted a couple of pictures from StreetMeatAsia

That guy's cock really made me feel something. I don't watch a lot of 'regular' porn, but I've seen plenty of big cocks, they don't do a lot for me.
This one though, being sucked by the petite girls... Yowza!

I went to the site, and most of the women I find physically unatractive. They are just not for me (And my partner is 1/4 asian, 1/4 native american, 1/2 nordic white)
so I guess she's my Asian-pass? I'm 'allowed' to say that?

Their country has normalized escorts, and guys go there just to fuck them...

Is that taking advantage or not? If it so normal in their soceity, is it really their choice?

I looked at a couple of the clips, and their face really didn't look like their were enjoying it. Probably their 5th guy of the night, and they are only half way through.

Something about it I really didn't like. It was the opposite of my experiences with escorts (Hey, I was an 18 year old catholic girl, from a very catholic upbringing, with no way
to meet other women... What was I supposed to do? And later, I was a gay woman living with a gay woman, and I wanted to torture a couple of muscular studs and have them seriously
fuck the shit out of me, litterly... What was I supposed to do?)


That said, some of the anal clips were hot! But generally speaking, I didn't like thier reactions. WHICH I UNDERSTAND IS THE POINT!!! THey are in the willing reluctance catogory.
Again, usually I wouldn't mind... I would just rather that they were white meat. (I love watching chubby amatuers getting anal. Love their reactions. I'm taking any and all recomendations PLEASE!)


Just curious about your thoughts, where is the line drawn? They were paid, they agreed, they know what they are getting into and probably do it every night.
Just a very different situation to what I'm used to.

[Navyrotor]

Interesting topic…

I won’t judge anyone trying to make a living, and if that means using your “assets,” more power to you. I do think that the level and amount, like anything in life, matters. I’ve no doubt that the girls pictured here, if they stay at it too long, would have some eventual mental issues unless they have inherently strong self-worth… not to mention any physical implications that could result.

On the mental side from a different perspective, some people are driven by a need to be dominated, and find it fulfilling - including actual abuse in some cases. Again, I believe it’s a matter of balance.

I’ve had lots of experiences with U.S. fee-based BDSM services (escorts by another name), and have had great luck with them in numerous cities. A common thread is that I’ve found the women to be among the most intelligent, well-adjusted and interesting people I’ve ever met, with almost no exception. That’s amazing to me, but I don’t exaggerate, and I feel I have a strong sense of character judgment. Before a dungeon scene, there is often significant exchange via email (and sometimes phone) to understand needs, preferences, “don’t dos” and etc. Then there’s often a conversation before and after a scene. This is where I’ve found these women to be engaging, light-hearted, highly educated, and really into their trade. And that goes equally for the women who are straight up Dommes, AND those who are “switches” (also willing to be dominated).

I’ll qualify all that by saying that the dungeons I’ve been to are expensive - generally $300 an hour or more. So it’s not a low-class clientele that can do that (not to get classist or anything… ). So I imagine that helps to ensure that all involved are relatively more stable and “educated” people. There are exceptions to everything, so no doubt some of these women are messed up in the head. But everything is relative, isn’t it… I’ve no doubt I’m pretty messed up in the head, too.

An example of one the dungeons I mentioned is run by Mistress Ayn in Atlanta (a city you couldn’t drag me to, except for her presence there). She is tall, beautiful, cruel, sadistic as fuck, playful and fun - and puts on the most realistic scenes I’ve ever experienced (I’ve described one in an earlier post, in which she provided a 2nd woman to be tortured alongside me, playing two captured military pilots. It was a mind-bending experience). Photo of her here; and here’s her site: https://www.mistressayn.com/. There used to be photos of the two ‘switches’ she could bring into a session, but I don’t see them on the site any more.

With regard to Asian women… sorry, no, not for me. I’ve traveled extensively in Asia and don’t find them attractive, as a rule. Mixed race? Absolutely, some of them are world class beauties. But pure Oriental facial features and body types generally don’t work for me. I’ve found that most American males who are into Asian women are attracted to their perceived submissiveness; thought I’m not sure that’s a correct characterization in my experience.

[frog]

Along the same vein:

[localroger]

Well said, Floor13.

For my part, there is something I do which I did as a pure source of delight and joy when I was an adolescent. It turned out that people would pay me to do this thing I loved, and I was delighted to find I could do that instead of some more soul-crushing type of work to earn my right of survival in our culture. But over the years some of the people I did it for were ugly an demanding and critical, and others were just difficult to please because they had real problems that were hard to deal with. After forty years I still get paid well to do the thing I love, and I still mostly enjoy my work, but I rarely do it any more just for pleasure. Also, when I was young people found it exotic and interesting that I could do what I do, but now later in life a lot of people think that I -- or at least people like me -- are responsible for a lot of frustration and suffering in the world.

That thing I do? Programming computers.

I have long felt the problem with sex work is not so much the sex part, but the work part. As in, our culture demands that we find some means of providing service to others in order to earn the basic necessities of life, much less any luxuries. Those of us who manage to earn our living in an enjoyable way are resented by those who must do real scut-work because no other option is available to them. All work is demeaning when you have to do it when you're not in the mood, for people you don't like or who abuse you, or when you are threatened or tasked with doing things that are beyond your capability. When you factor in all those things prostitution tends to be sketchier than other forms of work because sometimes it's a path of last resort for someone with limited options, but that's not because other forms of work aren't sketchy too.

When you live by the dictum of "let him who will not work, not eat" I think you lose the moral high ground to complain about someone who finds they can work by dancing naked, having sex, or solving cool problems all day long.

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[Edukator]

These girls are working hard for their money:

[Edukator]

Some more in the willing reluctance category (I really like this oxymoron, first used by Floor13).

These girls (call them escorts if you want, or simply w----s) doesn't seem to enjoy the situation very much, but since they are paid for they must honor their contract.