I can't speak for Pedro or Miss Belle.kinkyguy1211 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 24, 2022 1:53 am Question for @Pedro And Miss Belle
Pedro, How do you train your ladies to go that hard on girls, i mean at some point the emotions and sympathies kicks in for normal people, but your ladies doesnt show any remorse. Especially on rounds like Pussy whipping, So how long does it take to mold them like that, how is the process.
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and Miss Belle whats the feeling that goes on your mind when you deliver severe beatings on girls ?
Just curious
From my own experience (first filming, then in personal life):
(Also I only use floggers and paddles. I don't play with canes or whips to break the skin. The flogger sensation is more about impact than the sharpness of the whip. I do play with whips as I like the feel and length BUT that is 'play' at like 10%, nothing like Pedro does)
1) On the receiving end when I started to film... I found ZERO hesitation from the other ladies. They were very experienced however.
2) When I was initially shown how to swing, the opposite problem to the one you described occured: I wanted to go 100% from the start. The script was for a tortured soldier, so why wouldn't I flog her as hard as I could from the first stroke?
3) DEFINETLY needed to get a few lighter blows in first so she can get her breathing correct and her brain in the correct place.
I should point out that I've mostly been with women who WANTED&NEEDED it, rather than just being paid.
4) Being absolutly desperate for an orgasm before starting is a hell of a good way to get whipped. Also for the woman doing the actual whipping too.
5) Biggest problem when showing someone how to whip that I have found is: Getting them to slow down. If I'm receiving, then I need a moment between each stroke. I need to feel it and let it work through my body, I need the hormonal hit. I can't take it too rapid. I've seen the same with all the women I've played with who took it seriously.
6) I've only really 'trained' 3 people. Most importantly my partner. When we got together, she wanted 100% to be the submissive. She is not submissive at all, but just felt like she didn't know what to do in bed, so wanted it to just 'happen' to her, and was amazed at what she felt the first time her hands were tied to the headboard. So when we get together, she had zero BDSM experience, had been tied up twice, loved it, and wanted a hell of a lot more.
So she was somewhat unwilling to play a top role, as she just didn't want to fuck it up and ruin what we had. I had to explain many times that if I tell her exactly what I need, then it's all on me, there is zero pressure on her to 'perform'.
The extra problem is: I can't really take punishment unless I'm very tightly restrained with my arms in some form of stress. And a heafty gag to bite on helps. So that leaves zero room for any guidance while in motion.
But we got through it VERY quickly in 2 sessions. She isn't stupid, she knows the grunts I make when I liked it. And can clearly see that I'm dripping.
7) For me doing the whipping, obviously I have to hold back a lot for most of the time. I have a number of VERY heavy floggers with large handles filled with lead. The tails are very lightweight latex (don't last long) or very thing leather (last much longer). I can swing as hard as I want, and they will barely feel it (Again I should say, they REALLY need it, and so "barely feel it" might be an overstatement. When I've used them on ladies who are just there for the cash, they feel it...).
When I've worn myself on with the fake floggers, I can move on to more meaningful impacts with real ones, and mix in some strangulation with the tails.
8) There is a definite physical need for me (and my partner) to swing as hard as possible.
9) I very rarely use safewords. We know each other to not really need them, and we don't party like we used to (nothing to do with covid, this was a little earlier). Even in serious roleplay, we either go for "I'm not giving in" for a time limit. Or "Break me" so the captured spy gives up her info. My partner is extremely tough in that regard, and I often cannot break her without going over the top... She needs to prove to herself that she can take it, and I generally have no issue in giving her everything I have.
